Okay, I had a gripe w/my bf yesterday (left over from the day before) but it's blown over.  Nonetheless, someone sent me this link which I think is hiiiiiilarious! 

http://www.exboyfriendjewelry.com/

To solve those pesky problems of what to do with the jewelry left over from your ex-bf....."you don't want it, but he can't have it back." 

I love the tag line.  So true.  This is why boys think girls are crazy.

BTW - this picture is how I felt yesterday:

My friend sent me this article and asked if there was any chance I might have lesbian tendencies:

http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/23376489/?GT1=43001c

Apparently all women are either lesbian or bisexual :)

This is what I told him:

I'm attracted to hot people (men and women) and i have no fear of admitting that, but i love MEN....i love the way they look, how big they are, how they smell, how they sound, their deep voices, the way they feel, their muscles, how they behave, everything about them. 

Women are beautiful but men are soooo sexy....

I'm not a girl who has a fetish or understands fetishes (but trust me, I've tried).  There isn't anything that on cue will turn me on; for me it's all about context....being with the man that i adore, feeling sexy, attractive, appreciated, feeling like he's just really into me....that's what turns me on.  

But what a gift!  Imagine knowing that there's something out there that is so provocative to you, so appealing that the sight, smell, touch, feel of it just turns you on....how amazing.  

And to be on the receiving side of a fetish is pretty darn fun too....especially a fabric fetish, I mean, think about how hard some women work to turn on their man.....with a guy with a fetish, just the sight of you in a fabric that he likes is an instant turn-on. 

I love it!   

The mind has mental pleasure zones (wants, desires, fantasies) and the body hard wired plasure zones (breast stimulation for some, while for others it does nothing). 

My boyfriend's preference for latex and pvc vinyl is definitely part of his mental pleasure zone and I swear, it's also part of his hard wired physical pleasure zone.    

I believe it's important for men to learn how to enjoy sensual, erotic experiences without having sex with his woman.  What's sexier than a man in total self-control, withholding and confident....it makes him a more self-assured and virile lover, which every woman wants. 

Sensual & erotic experiences can often be more beautiful, warmer, and full of tenderness than the sex act itself and can generate a deeper intimacy between lovers. 

Find out where your man's pleasure zones are and play with him this weekend.  Enjoy and explore each other's head, hair, ears and neck (he loves that!), breasts, nipples, stomach, abs, back, buttocks, arms, underarms, hands, fingers, legs, feet, toes....did I leave anything out? 

Try stroking, rubbing, kissing, sucking (yum...), using lotions, oils, experiment with new and different fabrics you wouldn't otherwise use, latex, pvc, vinyl clothes and accessories. 

But remember, the emphasis is on intimacy and pleasure....sensual & erotic....and not on the goal of the big O.

When we think of Valentine's Day, we think of red roses, candy, cards, and winged cherubs shooting arrows.  No one truly knows the origin of Valentine's Day but according to one legend, the patron saint Valentine was jailed for conducting marriages against the decree of the emperor!  I would call him a hero! 

He sent his sweetie "Valentines" messages from jail, signed, "From your Valentine" which is still used today....ahhh, so sweet.....

My Valentine surprised me with some awesome gifts, some private, some not so private, and some very naughty.  A huge box arrived at my apartment, to which my doorman smiled and said, "hope he's a nice man." 

To my surprise, my sweetie sent me the sexiest outfit he could find, and probably something close to what he fantasizes about at night....Thigh high patent vinyl boots, fishnet stockings with a pvc vinyl band, a pvc vinyl corset, a ruched bra to go under it, thong (of course), and he MADE ME a pair of cute (!) vinyl boy shorts....love it! 

Guess what we did that night?