The mind has mental pleasure zones (wants, desires, fantasies) and the body hard wired plasure zones (breast stimulation for some, while for others it does nothing). 

My boyfriend's preference for latex and pvc vinyl is definitely part of his mental pleasure zone and I swear, it's also part of his hard wired physical pleasure zone.    

I believe it's important for men to learn how to enjoy sensual, erotic experiences without having sex with his woman.  What's sexier than a man in total self-control, withholding and confident....it makes him a more self-assured and virile lover, which every woman wants. 

Sensual & erotic experiences can often be more beautiful, warmer, and full of tenderness than the sex act itself and can generate a deeper intimacy between lovers. 

Find out where your man's pleasure zones are and play with him this weekend.  Enjoy and explore each other's head, hair, ears and neck (he loves that!), breasts, nipples, stomach, abs, back, buttocks, arms, underarms, hands, fingers, legs, feet, toes....did I leave anything out? 

Try stroking, rubbing, kissing, sucking (yum...), using lotions, oils, experiment with new and different fabrics you wouldn't otherwise use, latex, pvc, vinyl clothes and accessories. 

But remember, the emphasis is on intimacy and pleasure....sensual & erotic....and not on the goal of the big O.